A Vision of Loveliness, of Femininity
By Contributing Writer, Jennifer Ross
The “vision” most of us were given as young ladies about to blossom into womanhood was that of distinct feminism. Few of our own parents sought to purposely ingrain into our hearts and minds such confusion. No, it was by default that we unknowingly adopted this anti-God ideology that we brought with us into adulthood.
Many of us now struggle with these deeply imbedded beliefs.
And we don’t even know it.
Overcoming Feminism
By God’s grace we’ve overcome many of the worldly thoughts and misconceptions we may have carried with us for years.
But what about our daughters?
And our sons too, for that matter.
Do your little girls aspire to grow up to be a wife and mommy unto the Lord? Or do they long to be independent and successful?
Do your sons show interest in the girls that delight in swapping recipes with each other and joining in conversations with the older women? Or do they gravitate towards the giggly girls that rarely sit next to their parents at church and are frequently heard gossiping about which boy likes which girl?
Ladies, it is our responsibility to ensure that our children are being taught to believe, as well as fully embrace, solid Biblical values.
“Choose you this day whom ye will serve…” Joshua 24:15
We can’t be friends with the world and with the Lord. It just doesn’t work. The world has an agenda which, as we well know, is decidedly opposed to the commands of the Lord and His role for women.
God’s Vision for Women
God’s vision for women should be our vision for our daughters. We are to pour vision for marriage and motherhood into our daughters. Barring severe economic hardship or the death or serious injury of a husband, it is the Biblical norm for our daughters to one day be stay-at-home wives and mothers.
- “I will that the young women marry….” 1 Timothy 5:14
- “Older women… teach the younger to… love their husbands… children… be keepers at home…” Titus 2:3-5
- “Then the Lord God said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.’” Genesis 2:18
We must provide our daughters with this vision of godliness, loveliness and femininity. Use these verses above, and others like them, to combat the wicked views of this world and to speak crucial words of life into their hearts and souls.
No Higher Calling
by Jennifer Ross
Protect your daughters
pass on the vision
of true and Biblical
womanhood.
Stand your guard
and with conviction,
fight the battle which
our Lord calls “good.”
For it’s not against flesh and blood
that we war,
but of powers and rulers
of darkness and more.
They fight for the souls
of our little girls,
constantly and
without rest.
God forbid we allow
in them to flourish,
the heart of
a feminist.
We must raise our daughters,
to give the Lord nothing less
than the whole
of their very life.
For there is no higher calling
for a woman of God,
than that
of a mother and wife.
Tags: biblical womanhood, femininity, femnism, homemaking, maidens, parenting, raising daughters
Tank you for this article! I’ve also found that I struggled with a feminist mindset, and didn’t know it! But Gods Word is truly freeing me from it, but it does take constant reminding on my part. Glad to know I’m not alone…
Me too Amy!! me too… you are surely not alone!! Blessings!
As a homeschooling mom of 4, it blesses my’ heart to hear my little girls say they want to be a mom when they grow up. I want to teach them to find God’s specific calling for each of their own lives which will very likely be serving Him as a wife and mother. However, it is not every woman’s calling. Paul acknowledges in 1 Cor. 7 that there are decisions to be made in regard to marriage for both men and women and that there is no direct command from God that can be applied to all concerning it. Also, there are many women who long to be wives and mothers and have not had these desires fulfilled. I think it would be more appropriate to say that a wife and mother’s highest calling is to be a wife and mother, rather than that being every woman’s highest calling. Thankfully, our value as women is found in Jesus Christ and our highest calling is the specific one He has for each of us as unique individuals.