Category Archives: Emotional Abuse
When You are Erased
A Twist on the Good Samaritan
The “God Hates Divorce” Lie
Three Things to Put in Writing (and Three Reasons Why)
If you are tangled up in a confusing relationship, one effective strategy to gain a solid footing (and eventually a voice) is to write things down. It doesn’t matter if you are a good writer or not. Your purpose isn’t to win a Pulitzer prize. Here are three important things you can record on paper (or on your computer) that will be tremendously helpful to you over time.
Rushing Reconciliation is Rarely Rewarding
Can you have a healthy relationship where there is lying, covering up, pretending, overlooking, and ignoring? Does that foster intimacy? Of course not. Healthy relationships are grown in the soil of vulnerability and safety. When two people are open and honest, they can get close and experience authentic acceptance and love. Anything less is dysfunctional in some way.
How Can You Tell if Someone is Sorry – For Real?
Misogyny: An Epidemic From Hell
The One Sure Sign You are in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship
Three Nasty Things (some) Women are Saying About Naghmeh
I’ve been posting links to articles about the whole Saeed-Naghmeh thing over on my Facebook page. For the most part, the comments have been sympathetic toward Naghmeh, but there are some comments that I feel a strong urge to talk about over here on my blog. I’m not going to be Smucker’s Sweet, more Sriracha […]