When You Don’t Know What to Do

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My favorite Christian artist in my 20s was Steven Curtis Chapman, hands down. I still remember driving almost an hour to get to my teaching job – singing “Love You with My Life” at the top of my lungs. Then, the year I got married, belting out, “This is the Great Adventure” as I drove […]

When I’m Pitching a Fit

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You’ve seen it. The arched back. The clenched fists. The scrunched up face. The flailing feet. The hideous shrieks of indignation. And all you wanted to do was put their shoes on so they could do what they wanted to do: go outside and play. They thought you wanted to torture them, because, you know, […]

When She Said it Wasn’t Fair


Once upon a time there was a beautiful princess. One day, in a fit of frustration, she muttered under her breath, “It’s not fair! Why does So-and-So get away with such-and-such—yet Father never lets me get away with anything!” Her Father, overhearing her, scooped her up in His arms and said, “Beloved daughter, run with […]

Emotional Abuse in the Church

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October is Domestic Violence Awareness month, so let’s look at the type of domestic abuse most likely to be found within our church circles—emotional abuse. Even if you’re not being emotionally abused, according to studies, chances are that 1 out of 3 friends are. Why Emotional Abuse is Found in the Church This kind of […]

The Emotionally Destructive Marriage: A Review and Giveaway


“To the bravest women I know. Your faith, strength, and courage inspire me.“ This is Leslie Vernick’s dedication in her brand new book, The Emotionally Destructive Marriage: How to Find Your Voice and Reclaim Your Hope, written for women or anyone who wants to help women dealing with a silent, insidious abuse that often infects […]

When the Storms Hit: A Prayer for My Children

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By Natalie, Editress of Visionary Womanhood Dear Heavenly Father, I lift up these treasures that You have entrusted to my care during this brief life.  You are their Creator.  You are familiar with each cell in their bodies. You are familiar with each moment of their lives.  You know their strengths and weaknesses.  You know […]

Six Steps to Climbing Out of the Pits


Written by Natalie, Editress of Visionary Womanhood When we are in the deepest pits of pain, writhing inside, trying to get away from it – all the while knowing that there is no escape… …it is almost impossible to do anything for ourselves. In the initial shock of a life-shaking event, our adrenaline kicks in, […]

We See Fire. God Sees Gold.

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The follow excerpt is taken from Tried by Fire by A.W. Pink (1886-1952) But He knoweth the say that I take: when He hath tried me, I shall come forth as gold. Job 23:10 Job here corrects himself. In the beginning of the chapter, we find him saying, “Even today is my complaint bitter: my […]